Ramadhan Mubarak!

Assalamualaikum semua!

Pejam celik pejam celik dah 2 hari dah kita puasa kan. Ramadhan Mubarak! Semoga Ramadhan kali ni dapat kita optimize kan sebaik mungkin, InshaAllah. Sebenarnya, kalau diikutkan record bulan2 puasa yang lampau, saya ni tak rajin sangat nak pergi terawikh >_< huhu. Astaghfirullah~~ Tapi alhamdulillah kali ni terasa seperti mendapat satu ketenangan bila pertama kali menunaikan Terawikh di masjid Uia.

Alhamdulillah, niat untuk Terawikh ini bermula ketika si dia dan aku berbicara tentang solat Terawikh. Katanya Tarawikh itu "suatu kerehatan', mengapa hendak terasa beban? Lagi pulak perkataan tarawikh itu sendiri membawa maksud kerehatan. Aku terasa terpukul di situ. Pekk! Terus aku berniat serta bernekad untuk mengejar kerehatan yang dianugerahkan Tuhan, di bulan yang sangat mulia ni. Terima kasih ya Allah sebab beri aku kesedaran. Betapa alpa aku dibuai duniawi selama ini.

 (menunaikan solat Terawikh dgn telekung baru, hadiah pemberian ibu si dia, ole2 dari Vietnam-credit to Shafiqah n Atiqah jugak ^^)

Oh ye, tadi aku ada melawat blogger femes Maria Elena, cukup terharu serta bersyukur dengan perkembangan beliau. Begitu bersemangat beliau mengajak kita anak2 muda-wanita2 ni pakai shawl or hijab yang sempurna. Kak Maria if u may I would like to quote sikit ek apa yang kak Maria tulis ^^ :

nowadays it's not safe anymore. we've read on the news about how girls are getting kidnapped, murdered, raped here and there. it's a scary world i tell ya!!

so we need to protect ourselves. of course we need to have gadgets or some martial art skills and whatnot, but on appearance pun we have to take care.
don't wear clothes that will "mengundang" leering looks from men.

if one thing i'm sure of, it's men's weakness for women. it's already stated in the Quran!!

Surah Ali Imran (3:14)
Beautified for people is the love of that which they desire - of women and sons, heaped-up sums of gold and silver, fine branded horses, and cattle and tilled land. That is the enjoyment of worldly life, but Allah has with Him the best return.

so.. why cari pasal? we can look good of course, we can be fashionable or sporty or whatever, but we should know to what extend.

Honestly aku sangat bersetuju dengan statement kak Maria ni. Sekarang dah macam2 jenayah wujud kat Malaysia ni, sampai nak keluar sorang2 pun rasa tak selamat. So, we girls, one of the best way to prevent is by the way we dress.

Hmm. There is a story need to be told. Real, true story. Masa aku first year, kalau tak salah sem 2, aku kena stalk oleh seorang mamat Arab. Ada education, tapi jenis tak faham bahasa. Of course lah dia tak faham Malay kan. Hehe. So I decided to wear purdah. Sebab tahap dia punye stalk tu sangat melampau dan bahaya, dah la time tu aku selalu jalan sorang2 pulang ke Mahallah. It happened for a while aku pakai purdah, dalam 2-3 minggu kot tak ingat. But after that, the mat arab pun dah tak cari n stalk aku dah, sebab  mungkin dia dah tak dapat cari aku. Hehe. Alhamdulillah.

Sebenarnya dalam hati teringin nak pakai purdah like 'betul2 pakai', tapi tak tahulah. For the time being it remains as a hope. Maybe someday, inshaAllah. (=

p/s: Ramadhan Kareem semua. Selamat beramal! Semoga kita semua diberkatiNya. (=